Peer pressure has a terrible reputation, and that’s usually how it’s remembered. Avoiding pressure-makers is a common piece of advice given to us, and advice we tend to give to our young ones.
Here on the blog, I will be breaking down the concept of peer pressure – for you to understand your role better.
So, welcome to “Peer Pressure – A Series” everyone!
What is Peer Pressure?
The term “peer pressure” refers to the impact one’s social circle has on their behaviour. An individual’s social group may exert pressure on them to conform to their standards of conduct, outlook, and even value system. People give in to peer pressure because they want to fit in, and they’re afraid of being alone.
According to studies, the middle school years (grades 6–8) are the most formative in terms of peer pressure because of the age range (11–13). At this stage, children are developing their social skills, seeking acceptance among their peers, and becoming more self-conscious about any perceived differences that can make them targets for bullying.
The Effects
Consequently, students’ self-esteem and confidence plummet when they’re subjected to peer pressure. Students’ decreasing sense of self-worth and confidence undermines their faith in their own talents and efficacy. Additionally, if not prevented, it might hinder a student’s career and academic pursuits. The modern youth is heavily impacted by the celebrity lifestyle, which may include being like them, dressing like them, and even following their lifestyle. In the end, these kinds of actions can have a deteriorating effect on one’s sense of self-assurance and self-worth, leading one to withdraw emotionally from one’s loved ones.
What Should Be Done?
As a parent there isn’t one but many things a parent should do to ensure their kid is on the right path and is not affected. The “What should parents do” and “The Types of Peer Pressure” will be discussed in the next blog. Stay Tuned!